LET'S TALK FAMILY PLANNING

Kids are no mistake but there needs to be a plan for them,a friend once told me "I will never have kids until i can guarantee them a better life than i had" which i think is absolutely correct even though sauti sol, a kenyan band once sang "mungu akileta mtoto analeta na sahani yake" but depending on whichever side you stand we all agree that love alone cannot raise a kid. and once the kid is here we have to do all we have to raise them well no matter the sacrifices, sleepless nights and all that but then what happens if we don't want any more kids, who is to take up the responsibility to ensure we don't get any? I know its a pretty hard question and it throws all of us off-balance. i saw this somewhere although i don't know if it has any medical backing but it has logic, One man can impregnate 9women everyday for 9months,that's approximately 2,430 pregnancies. one woman can only get pregnant once in 9months even if she beds 9 men everyday for 9months. so clearly, society is placing the birth control responsibility on the wrong gender. science is busy making pills and hormone altering devices for the wrong person.The main culprit is known and is on the loose. Lets think vasectomy and lets try and reason it this way; family planning for women works as a bulletproof vest, it doesn't stop the bullet it only protects the bullet from harming the person and what if we actually stopped the bullet at the point of the trigger so that it never leaves the muzzle such that when the slide moves back there are no cartridges to be loaded wouldn't it be far much more safer and easier.

I know there is this whole fear surrounding the issue and maybe someone would ask why shouldn't she undergo female sterilization because its easier and all that but as i said lets stop the bullet from leaving.its much more cheaper to do vasectomy than it is to do sterilization then if its the man who has taken the responsibility i think its safer,i asked a friend about this and she told me men are cheats even if you ask them to take the pill they will still end up forgetting the routine or even lie about it which i think is very true, as a man i hate routines,that on a particular date of the month i have to take a pill it sucks most especially when am doing it for someone, so whats the solution we do it once and get over it in about four to five months you are good to go plus some people who have undergone it have huge praises for it but remember its not an excuse to make you a cheat and you have to sit your woman down and agree because this is a one way train there is almost zero chances of coming back. If you agree on a single child, you have to look at it from what if something happens and our kid is no more will she be willing to stay childless for the rest of her life. A joke was said of a man who did vasectomy secretly and never told his wife and few years down the line the wife got pregnant and she actually came to him all smiles, jumping up and down with the good news and she did not know that she was actually exposing her infidelity. I have read about it and i personally feel its a deal considering the financial times we are but you really need to be sure when you are stepping into it and the woman that you decide to take this route together with must make you sure that she will never leave you least she runs away with the kid and you can't have any other, because most of this women can never be trusted but if yours can then i think this is a deal for you.